Yesterday, I was fortunate to go to dermatology journal club and when it was over, our program director gave us this sheet of 10 rules to be successful according to Investor’s Business Daily. I wanted to share them with you all because the way he described it was so inspiring. I feel so lucky to have a program director that not only wants us to learn our dermatology, but cares to help us acheive the most out of our lives. He is my “John Wooden” , a coach not only on the courts, but in life…haha… and I wanted to share his messages, and sorry, if this sounds like an after-school special.
1. How you think is everything- think positive. Everyday in life, we are flooded with circumstances that are less than ideal, but instead of focusing on that, be excited about what is good about those circumstances. If anything, bad circumstances make you stronger. Focus on the positive. Do this with people too, people can be pretty nasty sometimes, but if you focus on what is good about them, what you can learn from them, you won’t be filled with negative energy. It is very easy to get caught up in it, but try to see the good.
2. Decide upon your true dreams and goals. They suggest writing down what you want in life. If you want to run a marthon, write that down somewhere, and think about a plan on how to get there. I think being sure enough about your dreams to literally write them down is the first of many steps to get your goal.
3. Take Action! Goals are nothing without action, put the work into it. If you want a dermatology residency, contact residents, read your dermatology books, write papers. Do something about it.
4. Never stop learning. We feel better about things that we know about, and we know about them by studying. Sometimes it is tough to get motivated to study, I feel the senioritis myself, but you really have keep learning!
5. Be persistent and work hard. Success is a marthon, not a sprint. You don’t know how many times I have called my dad crying and that is what he says. It is true, sometimes the journey is not always smooth sailing, you can’t give up…you have to keep at it.
6. Learn to analyze details- get all the facts, all the input. Learn from your mistakes.
Sometimes you can’t achieve a goal on your own, you need help, you need to know what you are up against.
7. Focus your time and money- we have only limited resources, so use them wisely. Don’t waste your time in dead-end situations, spend it in situations that are worthwhile. My program director told me, there are these specific windows of opportunity in life, recognize them because they are there for only a limited amount of time.
8. Don’t be afraid to be innovative. There is no one way to achieve anything. When I was applying to dermatology, nobody said, hey make a website you will get in. I made a website because I loved dermatology and it was my way of “writing it down on paper” to remind myself, I still wanted and loved it. I think it kind of helped me achieve my impossible goal. Sometimes doing what you love will allow you to be more creative than the next guy in achieving your goal. Be yourself, you don’t have to fit into a mold, and you will get it.
9. Deal and communicate with people effectively- you can’t do this on your own. You need to interact with others, and do it in a way where you help them bring out their strengths and in doing so, you will bring out your own.
10. Be honest, dependable, and take responsibility. Otherwise 1-9 won’t matter.
In medicine, we are constantly tired, stressed out, and overworked. Do your end of deal, be honest, be a good person, because your achievment will mean nothing if you aren’t a good person at the end of the day.
Also, something that kind of fits into this whole dream big, is there will be people along the way that will discourage you. That unfortunately comes with the territory of having a dream or asserting yourself in any way. You have to believe in yourself and believe in your dreams and ignore the backlash. Sometimes these “nay- sayers” can be in your own family, but you still have to keep going for what you want. Respectfully disagree and achieve it!
Ok, hope that motivates some of you. I know it’s cheesy, but I truly believe it. GOOD LUCK!























